Author Archives: Joyce

New Year’s resolutions that really work: How do you do a “don’t?”

“How do you do a don’t?” asked a young friend of mine.  Great question. Often when you want to change a behavior, you identify what you don’t want to do, and that’s a good starting point. However, though it is important to … Continue reading

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Transition: Impulse Control vs. “Mindfully Discerning”

Are you having trouble controlling your impulses? Stress, the holidays, and times of transition can cause this to happen. What to do? Author Fleet Maull wrote in his very compelling book, Dharma in Hell: “I know from experience that arbitrarily imposing strict … Continue reading

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Transitions: Dating in Mid-life

Are you dating in mid-life?  You may be going through a powerful transition. It’s not the same as dating when you’re younger, is it? It’s like getting a dog from animal rescue versus one from a new born litter. Please … Continue reading

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The Benefits and Challenges of Multi-Generational Living

There are advantages to multi-generational living that one does not experience while living independently. In my last blog post I talked about communicating effectively. It’s especially helpful to use compassionate communication when living in multi-generational situations because it lends itself … Continue reading

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Communicating Effectively

Most of us struggle with communicating effectively. Can you think of some examples in your life? Often, message sent isn’t message received. Here are a few communicating ideas for you to consider: State what you see or hear–without judgment. Then … Continue reading

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Wounds: You Will Do What Was Done To You…

Generally speaking, on some level, you will do what was done to you. Until you have actively and consciously healed old wounds to your psyche, you will inflict onto others what you experienced as a child. Most often, you’re not … Continue reading

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